I have been reading posts from Jubilee Economics and Simple Living Works, so I decided to try listening to their podcasts (See http://www.jubilee-economics.org/podcast/tag/common-cause). I recently listened to Number 28, which focused on “Stuff” and reducing our stuff.
I was disappointed. Gerald Iverson’s main example of reducing stuff involved moving to a retirement home. He and his wife did very well to reduce their “stuff” down to 30 percent of what they had.
But downsizing for retirement, or moving into a care community is as much pressure from conditions as it is a choice. It’s part of the life cycle, and seems almost to justify a cycle that goes: acquire, acquire, acquire, then divest, divest.
When my husband and I moved to a smaller retirement home, we calculate that we reduced our “stuff” by about 50 percent. A few years ago I began to wonder how to do more. This is partly due to the expectation that I will eventually have to move to a continuing care facility apartment, and to the feeling, “I don’t want to leave this for the kids to deal with.” But I also wonder what justice really calls for.
The question of justice arises from Lee Van Ham’s “One Earth Project,” which demonstrates that while we claim to understand that there is only one earth, our society operates as if there were five. Check the link in my blogroll, on the right of the page.
Three years ago I decided to try getting rid of one thing for each day in Lent. Including Sundays that means 49 items, rounded up to 50. It turned out to be easy. I was way over the number before Holy Week arrived. So the next year I tried again. It was a little more work, but I had a bookshelf I could turn into a display area, and my storage was much less crowded.
This past Lent I tried again. It was getting more difficult. I decided to count folders of old records I discarded (in the category of the things the children won’t have to deal with that’s good, but it doesn’t help anyone else, as gifts to thrift shops and worthy-cause rummage sales do.) I realized, afterward, that I had hit a psychological snag. What was the point of giving away things that would leave a gap on the shelf, or an empty space in the china cupboard? Since I can’t assume that someone will find these items to be just what they want and buy used instead of new, why not let them sit?
I need to do some thinking about this and I was hoping the Common Good Podcast would give me some new insights. Maybe they’ll take this up again.
Jun 24, 2013 @ 07:03:10
Hi Ellen,
I really understand what you’re writing here. I believe the problem lies in the fact that we are steadily advancing without taking time to enjoy the advancement. Therefore, a computer that you buy today is obsolete in six months. In addition, people try to keep up with the Joneses, so you rarely find people that are willing to buy a second hand television or a second hand sofa. It is unfortunate that we have begun to let our lives be dominated by things while basing our self worth on what we have.
Ciao,
Patricia
Jun 26, 2013 @ 14:58:04
I’m very glad to have been the recipient of one of the folders you passed on. There are many Quaker resources on living simply, simplicity being one of our testimonies. Take a look at the FGC Bookstore site for some titles.
Jun 26, 2013 @ 15:56:05
Thank you for your thoughts, Patricia, and for your suggestion, Sally. One source I have found very useful is “Living More With Less.”
Nov 09, 2013 @ 10:12:56
Thank you for talking about Simple Living, Ellen. We too have found “Living More with Less” very useful. In fact, it’s five Life Standards have been central to my ministry for 30+ years. I’m sorry your were disappointed in my example of reducing at retirement time. The point was that it was a ten year process. I’m now the co-host and producer of TheCommonGoodPodcast.com, and the producer of the new Simple Living Works! podcast and blog. I hope you’ll add one or both to your blog roll, read some posts and listen to a several episodes. I’m scheduled to interview the editor of the new 30th Anniversary edition of “Living More with Less” for an upcoming episode. As the former Exec. Dir. of Alternatives for Simple Living, I feel called to continue to promote faith-based voluntary simplicity.
Peace,
Gerald Iversen